He knows that the Whiteman would live in the best hotels or in the most expensive areas of the city – what we called GRA (Government Reservation Area) in any city: in Lagos he would live in Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Apapa and lately Lekki, never in Mowe, Iyana Ipaja, Lakwe, Bogije, Eleko, Ibeju, etc.
The Whiteman would have a driver, a steward, a nanny, a washerman, and a security man at his gate.
The focus merely appears to be placed on white men for two reasons: It’s most taboo and white men and black women statistically date outside of their races least.
So, it stands out when they date out—especially each other.
Despite the number of us clinging to this one-sided fight for black love, others see the light and have started dating white…red, brown, yellow, etc.
Tired of watching their girlfriends blindly walk past Banker Bob (yes, middle class white men are the segment of their population marrying black women) to compete with countless other educated, attractive women for the attention of some haughty, Audi A5-driving, Howard-bred corporate law attorney who only likes light-skinned girls, rain-beau daters are spreading the word.
Below are the 5 top reasons black women are apprehensive about going there with a white guy. Body image Black women are known to be naturally curvaceous. Thinner is usually all around better within the white community.