NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.
Over the past 5 years I’ve dated many Colombian women and I frequently update this post.
This creates a vicious cycle of you pushing him, him pulling back, you pushing more, and on and on until he either distances himself from you entirely or the relationship continues with an underlying tension.
You can’t force someone to open up to you, especially when it comes to difficult emotional topics.
We think about it, maybe even obsess over it, we put our heart on the line, we invest ourselves.