This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.
After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.
A man committed to you would rather lose his arm than cause you despair. If this happens in the beginning of a relationship, it’s actually quite common so don’t freak out.
No need to be reactive especially when he’s not really active on there.
But when those unique dating situations suddenly become your present reality, you still feel like a deer caught in headlights no matter how many books about polyamory or open relationships you may have read.