OK, I have been dating long enough to know that if a guy is interested he makes it happen.Anyway, I met this guy on the weekend at a party and I thought we hit it off.As women, we generally tend to fall both harder and faster than men.
While a little distance at the start of a relationship isn’t uncommon, a lackluster effort with odd excuses as to why is a major sign that he’s not that into you.
“There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.” ― Greg Behrendt, “The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction.
He was trying to save us tons of heartache by making us understand that most of the time, we are the rule, not the exception.
(RULE: if he treats you a certain way, then he is not into you.) As insightful as Greg’s advice still is, for me, it was missing a HUGE component. For me, had I taken Greg’s advice, I would have missed the biggest love of my life.
It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call.