For Germans there is a way of life and people pretty much know what to expect.
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So even if you are a smart and attractive woman, it is perfectly possible that you will keep standing in the corner alone at a German party and not be approached a single time.
This is probably because German men are hesitant to take the initiative with a woman but it could be also because they are rather laconic on the whole and don’t see the point in engaging in conversation for its sake.
German will probably never be known as “Die Sprache der Liebe,” “The language of love.” German men will likely never flirt with you as an Italian would, or shower you with romance as the French would. It’s like an onion, exposing itself one layer at a time instead of all at once, but no less flavorful. It’s like an onion, exposing itself one layer at a time instead of all at once, but no less flavorful.
In my 20s I would have considered it boring, in my 30s it became sexy. : When a guy says he’ll call, he’ll call – If he likes you, he may even call the next day.
Germans have rules for almost everything, but apparently waiting 2 days to call so that he doesn’t appear desperate is not one of them.